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Greece – Venema-case

An international child recovery of two children from Greece to The Netherlands.

To the reader,

This is an emotional letter from me, but I will try to put things down in a few paragraphs.

After having been married for ten years to a Greek man, and also having lived in Greece (and giving birth to two children ) during these ten years, due to all kinds of problems (mainly financial) and with explicit permission from my ex-husband, I left for the Netherlands with our two children to find a better life and a better future.

At the time, my ex-husband and I both had custody because there was no reason to claim full custody. We were still in reasonably good contact.

My ex-husband came to the Netherlands to see the children and they also went to Greece to visit him for the very first summer holidays. However, in the second summer holiday when our children went to Greece again, at the time they were 5 and 9 years old, my ex-husband did not return the children, our sons.

After afierce battle in the Dutch and Greek courts and despite the well-intentioned help of the Dutch and Greek Ministries I came up empty. My children hardly knew any Dutch anymore and as a result of the influence of the family over there, became more and more frightened to give their opinion. It became harder and harder for me to get them back in a normal way.

Time and again hearings were moved to a few months later and I began to give up hope. By now my children were so brainwashed that I even went to child protection in Greece. But they couldn’t do anything for me. My children had however clearly indicated to child protection that they wanted to return to the Netherlands, but each time it was pointed out to them by the family over there that the Netherlands was a bad country etc. And so this traumatic situation continued. My children were also afraid to give their real opinions to the Greek courts because the family would find out what they had said and they were very frightened of that.

Then I came in contact with the TV programme Tros TV Vermist and I also regularly went to The Hague to demonstrate against international parental child abduction in front of government buildings with other parents. When I was there, I got in contact with the founder of this organisation, the IECC. This was how I heard about what he could do for me. There was hope again. He gave me hope. After having been in contact with him several times, I decided to call in his help. I trusted him knowing that his children had been abducted too and he had managed to get them back successfully.

The IECC has helped me get my children back. Finally, after two years of misery and waiting and thanks to this organisation, I was able to bring my children back to the Netherlands. My children loved the founder, who has been very sweet and friendly towards them. Together, we brought the children back to the Netherlands in a calm manner. Without him this would probably never have happened and I would have had to wait for many years until my boys reached the age where they could state their opinion clearly without being subject to outside influences.

Now we are happy in the Netherlands and my children are doing well. They even go to Greece again on holiday after a lot of talking back and forth with my ex-husband. I now also have full custody. My ex-husband regrets the whole situation a lot and fortunately realises that this should never have happened. But it did happen and it will always leave a scar. Happily, my children are now at an age that I no longer have to fear.

I have always advocated that children should continue to see both parents. But a couple of years passed before I let them go over there again.

But now I can breathe easy again. Thanks to the IECC.

Our office is located in The Hague, NL, Europe



We strongly discourage taking matters into your own hands. 
The measures could be illegal and may delay your child’s return. 
Attempts to re-abduct your child(ren) violently from any country may:

  • Endanger you, your child(ren) and others;
  • Prejudice any future judicial efforts you might wish to make in the abducted-to-state;
  • Even result in the arrest and imprisonment for many years!, of you, and that of your accomplices.

Finally, there is no guarantee that the chain of violent abductions would end with the one committed by you. 
A parent who has violently re-abducted a child may have to go to extraordinary lengths to conceal his or her whereabouts, living in permanent fear that the child may be violently re-abducted yet again.
If you are contemplating such desperate measures, we advise you to consider the emotional trauma inflicted on a child who is a victim of a violent abduction and a violent re-abduction.
We discourage violent re-abductions not only because it is illegal, but also because of possible psychological harm to the child.

We don’t use illegal methods; we intervene in another way.
Our method of work is strategically un-orthodox, but obviously legal and safe with the assistance of our strong global network.
Your case, needs to be continuously coached, monitored and pushed forward by our organization.